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Housing / C., a woman suffering from schizophrenia
for 15 years has painful memories of the second time she had to go into
the psychiatric hospital:
And then I told my neighbor that I had to go back to hospital
and asked her whether she could do the stairs for me again when its
my turn, and all she said was: What a pity about your flat!
and slammed the door in my face. I was totally puzzled... and the relationship
with the neighbors changed completely. I mean, I remember how well we
got on together for decades, how we went on holidays together, how we
talked to each other, how we treated one another. That had been totally
different before...and that hurt me so much.
Employment / F., is living with schizophrenia
and is back in paid employment after a long and tough job hunt remembers:
When I recovered from my first episode, Istupidly enoughtried
to get in touch with my previous employer. And then I tried to explain
them that I wasnt well and the like, and they were sort of interested,
in such a way that they asked me whether my wife is still with me (laughs),
but that was it. We cannot do anything for you anymore and we dont
want to employ you again either
well, and then they interrupted the
conversation. It would have been better not to mention a word
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Friends and Family / A., her son has recently
developed schizophrenia, has found this with her friends:
Theres insecurity, Id say, a lot of insecurity. I notice
that with my friends, that they approach me, lets say after 3 or
4 weeks, that they say: We dont really know how to handle
all this. We are trying to read up on it, and now start realizing how
many facets this illness has. Its all pretty confusing. What
disappoints us a little is that insecurity toward our son, that we almost
have to invite them to get in contact, that we have to say: Why dont
you give him a call some time?
And then we hear What should
we talk about with him, which questions shall we ask?.
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